Submission and domination

I agree with the posters who say experiment. I'm not as fat as some women here, but I have had partners who were small enough to make it difficult. The pillow idea helps, sometimes side positions work better even than missionary. If I remember correctly, there's some good advice in Hanne Blank's *Big, Big Love* that might be worth looking at.

I'm going to go out on a limb here. One lover I had was so small that he didn't even want to try, and he was right. He was happy to play with toys, though, and we had LOTS of fun without penetrative sex. It's worth remembering there are other things, both to do and to be penetrated by. Just sayin'.

Purely for scientific research purposes (and a bit of fun), I would gladly offer my body to any BBW's who wish to experiment to see what is / is not possible - just let me know.